September 17th 2025 / µ

Never Victim-Blame

It is easy to fall into the victim-blaming trap, especially when you talk to other people, who more often than not will ask something in the line of:

But what did you do?

I have heard this question in more varieties than I care to remember, including from police officers in the Danish police force. My answer to what I have done:

I existed and crossed paths with a raving loony and his group of similar monsters, with links to the police force, social services, as well as ethno-religious social control networks in Denmark and in France. That is what I did.

My point is that you should never lose sight of the fact that you are never to blame for being a victim, and it is not your responsibility to explain the reasons why criminals do what they do. Do not waste your precious life and time searching for reasons for other people’s violations of you.

And here is a special instructive note to the Danish police force:

Please read that last bit again and again until you get it into your thick heads NOT to ask women what THEY did to be victimized by criminals. Stop victim-blaming and start doing your jobs, the jobs paid for with taxes, also from the women whose lives you crush with arrogance, indifference, and ignorance.

2. Creative Outlets

Play an instrument, draw, paint, write – whatever lets you use those creative talents, because it relaxes you, makes you happy, and takes your focus off whatever others are doing to you. I write.

I used to do photography too, but that is on the back burner, because whenever I leave my house, someone from the group follows.

An example of such a situation is from 2021, when I went to have coffee. Three women from the group followed, talking loud enough for the entire establishment to hear them spew out that I was on supervised temporary release.*

That’s the kind of thing the monsters do wherever I go – including Paris. And the Parisians fell for it, and let the monsters into their homes and minds, as numerous Danes have done over the past nine and a half years. Seemingly, even the Parisian police force was deceived by their lies, as the monsters claimed to have worked alongside the local police, a scenario only possible if they were fooled by the monsters’ lies. I doubt it, but one should never say never.

The above type of gang-stalking has socially isolated me completely because Denmark is a tiny country, and gossiping is a national sport. The extreme gang-stalking situation has forced me to change my way of life, but I won’t let that stop me from living or creating. I flower where I grow, and so today I focus on creative activities I can do inside my home:

I write, I cook, and I have begun to design notebooks.

My point is that even if you are socially isolated, stalked, and harassed whenever you leave your house, you can still find creative outlets, life-confirming creative outlets that make you happy.

* The above is just one example of hundreds. For more examples of what this group does, read these posts:

20 Lies

She Is Crazy!

Witch Hunts in the 21st Century

3. Physical Activities

Find activities that calm you and improve both your physical and mental health, as strong health and inner peace are crucial for enduring life’s constant stresses. When being a stalking victim, your mind and body are in a constant state of defense. Your primitive nature, your lizard-brain, will most likely react to the danger, that is the stalking, in one of three ways:

Take flight, fight the bastards, or hide.

I bet you have felt that way, right? You have considered moving - taking flight. You have considered using that baseball bat - fighting. And you stay where you feel safe - hiding, like a Neanderthal woman seeking safety from a big bear inside her cave, right?

There’s nothing wrong with that. However, for all three activities, your mind and body need to be on alert and energized, which is, in effect, a stress situation, because your body reacts by pumping hormones, your blood pressure rises, and other physiological reactions occur. You are always ready for a fight, even inside your cave, because the big bear could come in and eat you!

And this is great for a here-and-now situation, such as running fast to escape an angry bear or lifting a car to save someone. However, it’s a dangerous situation if it lasts for years. Worst-case scenario, you can die from the stress that being on constant alert exposes your mind and body to.

Finding an activity that relaxes both your mind and body is therefore vital. The activity or activities you choose will, of course, be conditioned on your financial situation, your abilities, and location. So, find a physical activity you love and that relaxes you, which you can do safely within your financial limits.

FYI, even if picking up a baseball bat and crushing skulls seems like the perfect physical activity sometimes, being cheap, straightforward, and satisfying, I would imagine, it isn’t a good idea. Repeat that:

Crushing skulls is a bad idea!

And now, try to believe it!

4. Find Peace and Happiness in Stories and in Your Thoughts

Reading, watching, listening, whatever relaxes you and makes you happy. Anything that brings you happiness can help you relax, even if it is the 20th rewatch!

Your time is your own, and you need to respect yourself more than any expectation, trend, or what is politically correct right now to stay strong and mentally healthy.

5. Lose All Toxic People

Toxic people not only drain you; they make you doubt yourself with their remarks, their lack of faith in you, and their arrogance. If people don’t believe in you, they are toxic and need to go; and you don’t have to forgive someone who betrayed, hurt, or walked out on you.

If someone betrays you once, they will most likely betray you again, because it is in their nature to betray. If someone hurts you once, they will most likely hurt you again, because it is in their nature to hurt others. If someone walks out on you once, they will most likely walk out on you again, as it is in their nature to do so.

The above may not be true for everyone, but why take chances on people when they have already proven that you cannot trust them? If you forgive people who failed you or trespassed against you, you disrespect yourself and open yourself up to even more pain and anguish.

Respect yourself, accept that toxic people need to be removed from your life, regardless of who they are.

Me? I will never forgive anybody. I hate everybody who has partaken in the criminal madness over the past nine and a half years, even if as little as a phone call, and I wish every last one of them a slow and painful death.

Summing Up!

The point is to live in a way that takes away focus from the monsters destroying your life, continue to build mental and physical strength, stay healthy, and find a way to keep calm amid the nightmare others are throwing at you.

People who lose control of their feelings and thoughts can rarely reason well, and they make rash and reckless decisions. If you are a stalking victim, you cannot afford to make rash and reckless decisions.

On that note, thanks for reading. I hope you found it valuable and worth your time. Until next time, remember to get your facts straight!