Out Of The Grumpiness
September 8th, 2023 / µ
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I Will Never Love Again!
When you lose a dog, it feels like life has ended. You think that you will never, as Lady Gaga sang, love again.
But then, one day, suddenly, 1 ½ years after your fur-BFF passed away, something happens. You realize you have returned from the land of perpetual grumpiness.
This came to me in one of those epiphany-ish moments a couple of days ago when a former friend, now an acquaintance, wrote to my mom that she had picked up a new puppy. One year ago, I would have been friendly on the surface but filled with hate and anger on the inside because I loathed anyone who still had their dogs and cats when the cruel and indifferent universe had taken my dog away from me, leaving me surrounded by idiots, who kept telling me that he was 14 years old. But now, I didn’t even bother to hate her - for having a dog, that is.
I will love and miss my dearly departed dog forever, as I miss and love all other animals who were loving enough to share their lives with me. But even this loss seems to have been integrated into my erroneous and disillusioned personality by now. And now, my brain tends to focus more and more on the beautiful and funny moments with the world’s best-ever Yorkie!
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Losses
All losses will become part of who you are. One day, you wake up and notice your heartache and sorrow have turned into memories, some beautiful, some funny, and some that will fill you with longing. But the anger and frustration have now vaporized like morning dew on Memory Lane.
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Thanks for reading! I hope you found it valuable and worth your time! Until next time, remember to get your facts straight and that whatever good times you have will never come back as bad times,
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